Tra-la it’s May 18

May 18th, 2012

 

This month the Twitter birds are going A-May-ING Camelot style!

MacSeeds fast foods.

The Psych Owl Ogist 4

May 17th, 2012

Tweet and Retweet were beginning to feel as if their heads would explode!
They had consulted the Psych Owl Ogist because they were worried about the behaviour of their Tweetlets and whether they were parenting them in a way that would enable them to become well adjusted, sociable Twitter birds.
And now the Psych Owl Ogist was telling them that the Tweetlets were gifted and overloading them with information in the form of books and articles to read and websites to visit.

“But what about their behaviour?” asked Retweet “All our friends and family say our Tweetlets are noisy and naughty!  They say Tweetil is too smart-mouthed for his own good and  might have ADHD and that Tweetelle is emotionally immature, neurotic and weird because she talks to an imaginary Bedlington Dog/Lamb floating in a hot air balloon and won’t eat her caterpillars”

 “I’m here to tell you what you don’t have to worry about, as Lesley Sword would say” reassured the Psych Owl Ogist.

 Here is another great collection of articles for you to read. These are by Lesley Sword and you can find them at http://giftedservices.com.au/handouts/index.html 
Have a look at this diagram which shows The Intellectual & Emotional Experience of being Gifted and Talented

Read the handouts
Psycho-social Needs: Understanding the Emotional, Intellectual and Social Uniqueness of Growing Up Gifted and
Parenting Emotionally Intense Gifted Children
 
You will see that, as Piechowski and Colangelo said

Emotional intensity is positively correlated with intelligence and so the higher the intellectual level, the more emotionally intense a gifted child will be. Emotional intensity is expressed by the gifted through a wide range of feelings, attachments, compassion, heightened sense of responsibility and scrupulous self-examination. While these are normal for the gifted and appear very early in gifted children, they are often mistaken for emotional immaturity rather than as evidence of a rich inner life.  (Piechowski & Colangelo 1984)

And you will read about forms and expressions of emotional intensity 

 

“You will see that it is natural for your gifted Tweetlets to be as emotional and expressive as they are.”

Gifted children need the significant adults in their lives to understand that it is natural for them to feel deeply and intensely and to experience a wide range of emotions and not interpret their intensity as over reaction or emotional immaturity. It is important to take time to listen to their feelings and appreciate their sensitivities, intensities and passions. However, gifted children need to realise that sensitivity does not mean weakness and so they should not be over protected from the world and from the consequence of their actions. (Lesley Sword 2001)

 “And do not worry about Tweetelle refusing to eat caterpillars. She is demonstrating expanded moral awareness. We could talk about Kazimierz Dabrowski and the theory of Positive Disintegration at a later stage.”

Expanded Moral Awareness: The Potential for Advanced Emotional and Ethical Development

Moral concern can be observed in even very young gifted children and is an expression of intellectual intensity. When combined with sensitivity and empathy, which are expressions of emotional intensity it is transformed into moral commitment.

Smutny (1998) explains how gifted children feel deeply for others. “They sense the joys, pains, sorrows and hopes of family members, friends, classmates and sometimes become distressed when they cannot alleviate the problems of others……gifted children will often weep at the cruel treatment of an animal. They will frequently ask questions and express concern about world problems – poverty, war, environmental devastation”. (p10)  This empathy for the suffering of others makes gifted children particularly vulnerable to the many forms of insensitivity they see on television, at school or in the world around them. Often these children feel powerless to act and this sense of helplessness can lead them to despair and being critical of themselves as they feel a responsibility for these situations.

Because of their intellectual complexity, gifted children are able to consider the possibilities of how things in the world might be. At the same time they can see how far short the world is falling of their ideal and they feel keen disappointment and sometimes despair. When they try to share their concerns with others, they are often met with reactions such as denial, minimising, puzzlement or hostility. (Webb 1998) (Sword, 2001)

“Many social and emotional characteristics which are rare in the general population and therefore appear weird and extreme to others are very common in the gifted.

Another website you should visit is SENG – Social Emotional Needs of Gifted
http://www.sengifted.org/   - they have great conferences and articles.

The equivalent organization for Twitter Birds is SONG!”

 

Tra-la it’s May 17

May 17th, 2012

This month the Twitter birds are going A-May-ING Camelot style!

Madame Twitter Bird has commissioned the Poet Lorikeet to write a love poem addressed to her.

Tra-la it’s May 16

May 16th, 2012

This month the Twitter birds are going A-May-ING Camelot style!

Tra-la it’s May 15

May 15th, 2012

This month the Twitter birds are going A-May-ING Camelot style!

The Psych Owl ogist 3

May 14th, 2012

“It is about WHO the Tweetlets are!” reiterated the Psych Owl ogist “Who…who…who…”

Tweet and Retweet were not sure whether he was still talking to them as he seemed to have gone off into his own reveries.

“What do you mean WHO?” asked Retweet

The Psych Owl ogist shook out his feathers. “Well,” he said “Usually at about this point in the discussion human psychologists and gifted education consultants would refer to an excellent article by Stephanie Tolan Is it a cheetah?
http://www.stephanietolan.com/is_it_a_cheetah.htm

“But I am going to present you with an analogy which is more pertinent to your specific situation.”

Is it an Arctic Tern?

You see a bird and it is wearing a distinctive band and you follow its progress as it completes its migrations and you make a map of the flight paths and see that it travels from its northern breeding grounds along a winding route to the oceans around Antarctica and back, a round trip of about 70,900 km (c. 44,300 miles) each year. This is by far the longest regular migration by any known animal. The Arctic Tern flies as well as glides through the air, performing almost all of its tasks in the air. It nests once every one to three years (depending on its mating cycle); once it has finished nesting it takes to the sky for another long southern migration.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arctic_Tern

You know it is an Arctic Tern because they are the only bird able to accomplish a migration of this distance.

 

But what if you see the Arctic Tern when it is sitting on a pylon and it is not wearing a distinguishing band?
Would you still know that it is an Arctic Tern?

You would know if you knew the distinguishing characteristics of an Arctic Tern.

Arctic Terns are medium-sized birds. They have a length of 33–39 cm (13–15 in) and a wingspan of 76–85 cm (26–30 in). They are mainly grey and white plumaged, with a red beak and feet, white forehead, a black nape and crown (streaked white), and white cheeks. The grey mantle is 305 mm, and the scapulae are fringed brown, some tipped white. The upper wing is grey with a white leading edge, and the collar is completely white, as is the rump. The deeply forked tail is whitish, with grey outer webs. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arctic_Tern

Is it still an Arctic Tern when it is sitting still and not engaged in migration flight?

Of course it is!

Both analogies – the cheetah to the gifted human and the Arctic tern to the gifted Tweetlet – show that giftedness does not have to be demonstrated to be a fact.
Both acknowledge that there are characteristic traits which make it recognisable, without need of demonstrated achievement, which will be obvious to those who know and understand those characteristics
Both analogies discuss that the creature must be fit, supplied with adequate nourishment and suitable environment to be able to produce the phenomenal accomplishments of which the species is capable.

The cheetah analogy is the better one because it also illustrates the scarcity in numbers of the cheetah; which is similar to the rarity of very high IQ in the general human population. It also speaks of the danger of extinction of the cheetah which relates to the section in the Columbus Group definition of giftedness.
‘The uniqueness of the gifted renders them particularly vulnerable and requires modifications in parenting, teaching and counselling in order for them to develop optimally.”
http://www.hoagiesgifted.org/identification.htm

Fortunately, although the Arctic Tern numbers are dwindling in some areas, the species as a whole is currently considered in the Least Concern category by the IUCN http://www.iucnredlist.org/apps/redlist/search

The cheetah analogy is also superior because it discusses the camouflage of cheetah cubs which describes well how many gifted students hide their abilities in order to blend in with their surroundings and fellow students to avoid ridicule or pressure.

Both analogies recognise that the creature must be adult to perform the incredible feats.

What about an Arctic Tern chick? Like your Tweetlets, it is not ready to fly yet. Is it an Arctic Tern or just a potential Arctic Tern?

Tra-la it’s May 14

May 14th, 2012

This month the Twitter birds are going A-May-ING Camelot style!

Paartaay!!!

May 13th, 2012

Tra-la it’s May 13

May 13th, 2012

This month the Twitter birds are going A-May-ING Camelot style!

Tra-la it’s May 12

May 12th, 2012

This month the Twitter birds are going A-May-ING Camelot style!